Saturday, May 01, 2010

For every action, there will be a consequances!

On Monday, Corporal Jenain Subi was charged in the Sessions Court in the connection with the shooting death of teenager Aminulrasyid Amzah, 15 in Jalan Tarian 11/2 section 11 between 1.10 am and 2 am on April 26.

However, the main point that I would like to bring to note here is 15 years old, and the time of death, between 1.10 am and 2 am. While the authority has taken the steps to charged the policeman involved in the case, what’s due is, action towards the other party involved in this case.

While it’s against the law to talk about the on going case, I’m wondering if there would be anybody who will raise the child neglect aspect in this case. Child neglect that is so obvious that it resulted in a death.

What is an underage child doing outside of his secured house, in the wee hours, driving his sister car without license with or without his parent’s knowledge? Where is the responsible caretaker of this good boy?

Child neglect, while not a legal definition including Wikipedia could be separated into the following types: Failure to provide which includes Physical neglect, Emotional neglect, Medical neglect and Educational neglect. Failure to supervise includes Inadequate supervision and Exposure to violent environment. According to the Child Act 2001, a child means a person under the age of eighteen years. Also in the Child Act, it’s stated that any person who, being a person have the care of a child abuses, neglects, abandon or exposes the child in a manner likely to cause him physical or emotional injury commits an offence and shall on conviction be liable to a fine not exceeding twenty thousand ringgit or to imprisonment for a term not exceeding ten years or to both.

For a 15 years old to be out and about driving a car after midnight is sheer neglect. It is dangerous for even an adult let alone a child to be allowed to do so.

While this is incident is not an isolated case, as a lot of us has seen underage children driving around without license, wandering late at night and even smoking in public, yet when an incident like this occur, we forget the fundamental of it all. Such incident won’t happen if rules are followed and care takers are more responsible. In my adolescent’s years, my parents would be on their heels if I were not home by Maghrib let alone if I’m not home by 10pm. I would have been grounded. It happens less then 10 years ago and how time has changed.

In developed country, neglect cases such as this would result in action taken towards the caretaker. There are no such things as leaving your kids unattended or even not knowing where they are. Not that I want us to be anal in our political correctness like some lawyers are, but when its good for everyone’s well being, why don’t we take some heed from them?

At the end of the day, I hope this would be a lesson to all. For the police to do their job, we have to weight in by being a more responsible citizen. Rules are there for a purpose. Question is, the Corporal is facing the consequences of his actions, will the parents of the victim do?

Thursday, January 01, 2009

Happy New Year!

There was no firework at my place this year. Unlike the year before, all was quite serene. Was I upset? Neah. Fireworks are cool but don't miss it. The rest of the people, at least those close to me did miss it.

Am busy retrofitting my old house into a Soho. The idea is to create a living room with a cosy environment that will also double as a gallery. Its almost there. To be exact, 80% of the work is done. It's just the kitchen. The contractor can't seem to finish it since last October!

So, befitting the new year mood, here's my resolution for 2009.

1. No more carbonated drinks.
Haven't drank Coke for a year, so I guess it's time to spread to the others.

2. More time spend exercising.
Nope, not that i will enter the gym or jog every morning. That wont materialized.
5 minutes cardio workout in the day time, 5 minutes in the evening. Anything else would be a bonus!

3. No more late dinner.
Not just its bad for your body, it makes you lazy!

4. More time with my camera.
Used to be with my camera 24/7. It stops when I became a full time photographer. This year would like to start a personal project, will not leave the camera home when going out and hopefully will publish my work.

5. No more late reply (email)
Will reply all my email as soon as I get it. Trust me when I say it wont be easy. 30-40 emails per day asking for quotations, setting up appointments etc. I NEED a secretary :p

Thats about it. Sure its not much, but hey, why make a list that you know the probality of achieving it is low. I list those in my dream for 2009 hehehe

A Mitsubishi Lancer • A Nikon D3 • A trip to New Zealand • A new GF and last but not least, more money hahaha... Eh, and world peace hahaha

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Thank you Mr Coffey

For the first time last night, I sat through The Green Mile. I dont know why but I was seriously touched by the movie. No! I did not cry, but it made me start my new year with a prayer. It took me a damn western movie to knock some sense to me that there are much more to life.

The question was why is it a nice guy should be condemned with unhappiness. Coffey was blessed with a miracle to help others but yet cursed with having to deal with hatred and evil of others in his mind. Im not blessed with any miracle but I know the feeling when youre not appriciated.

This morning woke up and straight away picked up my gal at her house. She was so upset having to work on a holiday. But some how she manage to smile. I would do anything just to see her smile. And ive just pick her back up just now before accompanying her to the salon. She has a wedding to attend tonight and wanted to blow and curl her hair (which sometimes make me wonder why on earth did she rebond her hair last month?). It turned out to be a disaster. She was so upset. So we went to Watsons and bought some hair curler and hairspray. I do hope its turns out well. Not that she's not allready a lovely gal. An exciting start to the New Year for me *yawn*

Ive never talk about her rite? I'll write about her later lah.

Happy New Year - May what lies ahead will make you stronger and better.

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Somebody ask me wheter its ok, while having a steady relationship, to actualy build up a new friendship with new, opposite sex friends.Depends on what youre looking for and what the new friend wants. But when you know it could turn up to be something else, why take the risk? You should somehow respect your partner feelings too. But knowing me, if it happens to me, I could never restrict my gal from doing so. Would you like to see your partner unhappy by saying no? I dont.

And I know, Im killing myself.

Friday, December 30, 2005

Sometimes being nice isnt enough...

Final 2 days before 2006. The day start with an appoinment with Ben, our carpet man. He is responsible to put up carpets at our concourse area for our CNY promo. Then met Alex, a very nice guy who have been helping me with producing the deco at the mall. A stop over at Zang Toi and in the afternoon a photoshoot for our over the dateline calendar.

They say that when a man loves a woman, he will climb the highest mountain and swim the seven seas, just to --- . Ive asked my office mates to be the model for my shoot and they agreed. Yat, who is considered as Facility Management can do gal was going to be photograph at the bowling centre while Chok, F&M exec will do the shopping at Zang Toi. With one condition, his partner must be the gal from the salon at our mall. By all mean, if she's lovely Im all set. And yes, she's kinda sweet. The photoshoot went well. But the pix werent. I was trying to portray a couple shopping happily but what I got was a sugar daddy and his mistress. Dissaster!

The thing is, the whole evening became great when, my Chok were paying for everything. We played bowling when we're only suppose to shoot some pix. He even brought us to dinner at Monte's, my fav western food restaurant. Wooing the gal he was. And to my and Yat's amazement, the gal responded positively. And the best part, Chok even told her that he's married with a kid!

You see, Chok is a nice guy. He really is. So perhaps in a way he deserve to receive such respond. But not all guys are that lucky.

As nice as you could be, as much as you would live your life for someone, sometimes you wont get the same luck.

New Year, New Resolution, Same Old Me

8 Months. That is quite a while. Working is busy, at least mine is. 8 months ago, I was employed. And to my surprise, Im still here. Its fun. Working in a shopping mall. Trust me, it is. You go to the office at nine never knowing what time you will go out. Like today, Ive just arrived at home. Well, I stayed back at the mall because me and my friends went to see the Actorlympic at TAS. Its a good one, miss it you shouldnt.

Did I tell you what I do here? Im working under the advertising & promotion department. My work scope? Everything from event organising to buying ice cream for a crying kid. Office hour? Depends on the season. Is the pay good? Sort of. Do I love working here? Damn I do.

Theres always drama here at the mall. Today, a kid was stuck at the escalator and fell down. Then when I was reading through the paper, somebody complain to the editorial that our foodcourt shortchanged him. 1 cent! 1 bloody cent! And Im still looking for vendors for our Chinese New Year promotion.

My whole life has changed. Bit by bit. Social life. New environment, new friends, new problems.

The thing is, I promise myself, that starting next year, I wanna make sure I read my blog at least once a week. My life is like soap opera, and why not bitch about it to everyone. Later.